Honoring My Father on the Occasion of his Passing

Dear readers, I pause to honor my father, Robert Melville Blincoe, who died at the age of 95 yesterday. He was the bravest and best man I ever knew. He was the best father anyone could ever have. He and mom raised a family, then became foster parents, taking care of babies who were waiting to be adopted. My parents welcomed 350 babies into their home in a career that lasted 5 decades. Think of that! Seven new foster babies every year for 50 years. My father outlived my mother, Marilyn, by four years. They are together again at last. They are reunited with my sister, who died so young. Dad cheered every heart and healed every human sorrow that he could. How I wish I could phone him again and hear him say, “Hello Robert!” Dad always said, “I am the most fortunate person in the world.” If you can think of anything better than that you will have to tell me. We miss him already. It will not be long until we see him again. Jesus Christ our Risen Lord said, “Because I live you too shall live.”
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How blessed you are to have had such a father, and to have him for so long! My dad is 85, and is one of the best men I know. He loved me with an intense sacrifice, and I have not seen any other human love like that. He ushered me straight to Jesus.
Thank you for sharing your Dad’s legacy with us. I look forward to meeting him!
Dear Bob and Jan, What a treasure of a man. What a team they made. Big fathers leave big holes. I know there is an ache to tell him one more time how much you appreciate him. Trusting God to comfort you, Anne and Don
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. An amazing Godly man he must have been to have raised such a son. We pray you are blessed as you remember all of your times with him and your mother. May you find great joy in celebrating his life. He is where we all long to be.
Anne and I pray for comfort for you and your family during your season of missing your Dad. Thank you for sharing about his remarkable, inspiring life. As you all celebrate his home going, may the joy of Jesus fill your lives and displace the momentary sadness that you now feel.
In Christ,
Mike
Dear Bob. Steve and I grieve with you the loss of your Dad. He sounds like an amazing man. I know you will miss him. May The Lord comfort you and give you peace at this sad time. God keep you.
I always called him my favorite uncle and he would always respond that I was always his favorite niece. Even though we were cousins lol. I will miss His infectious smile, the twinkle in his eye. So many wonderful family memories! He shines through each and everyone of you! Love and prayers always, Que
Bob and Jan,
I am always inspired by the lives your parents led. They are real heroes! I was blessed to have met them on one of our Campus Crusade field trips in the 70’s. Until we meet again…
I am sorry for your loss. We know that your dad and mom are with the Lord and are enjoying being together in His presence. May you take comfort in that knowledge. Losses are not easy to take, but we can place our burdens on Him whose yoke is light. May God and His Holy Spirit give you peace in your heart and mind knowing these things.
Bob, it is good and right that you honor your father so well on his passing. Without ever having met him, I know something about his qualities, for they shine in you. His generosity of spirit built your generosity of spirit. His love for the orphaned and left behind constructed the framework for your passion for those on the frontiers of faith. We have hope because the gospel is true.
All grace to you, Bob and Jan, as you bury, and remember the greatness of, your dad. There is nothing to compare with the earthly loss of a dad and mom. All the more now, “the Lord will take you up!” (Psm 27:10)
Dear Bob,
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your dear father. I had the privilege of meeting him several years ago when he was at the USSB. I can see how your much-accomplished life has its roots in the loving example of service that you beheld in the life of your father (and mother). The paragraphs on your blog do so much more than merely honoring him. They show us how God works through our parents (and grandparents) to bring about his purposes. Thank you so much for sharing a little of his life story. It encouraged me this morning!
Doug
I am sorry for the passing of your father Bob. He was truly a wonderful man. Your writing about him is beautiful. He lived an extraordinary life with your precious mother. May our Lord pour peace over you, Jan and all the family in this journey of grieving.
In His love,
Vicki
I’m feeling sorry for the sadness of loss you are experiencing but happy for ability to be totally confident of the love & happiness that your father is experiencing. It always helps a lot in managing your new life without him easy to talk to. Know my heart is with you all. ❤️❤️❤️
Hello Bob,
What a great tribute for all to read. Thank you for doing that. It is indeed a testimony to a life well lived.
Sincerely,
Jack
Bob,
It sounds like you lost a hero, a Dad, a friend–and heaven has received a saint. Bless him as he hears the words, “Well done thou good and faithful servant.” Bless you and your family as you grieve and say goodbye.
Dan Price
Amazing! What An inspiration!
May the Lord… “The God of All Comfort” pour His gracious Presence upon and around you and those who gather to honor the passing of your father on earth. As I read your comments below the picture of your parents, I couldn’t help but want to sing praises and stand in awe of a life lived so honorably and that touched so many people. Your father is a shining light. May he live on in your memories and be an ongoing inspiration to all of us.
Thank you for sharing about your dad. 350 babies??? Your folks left quite a legacy. If you have any other writings on your dad, please share. I wonder if I ever met your folks at church. Yesterday must have been a glorious and sad day for you both at the same time. Please send me details about the funeral.
“The memory of the righteous is a blessing…” Prov 10:7a – what a moving tribute to this saint! I look forward to meeting him one day in heaven.
Dear Bob and Jan, You have my most sincere condolences. As you celebrate his life and legacy may you find that your hearts are full of joyful memories that the Lord chooses to highlight for your good. You are in my prayers. 🥰
What a beautiful tribute to your father. Thank you.
Bob and family,
My condolences. Such a warm tribute to both your parents. 95!! Wow! Now at rest. You’ve been a good son. Best, brother George
Thanks for sharing about this amazing man and father to you. He helped shape you and your passions. May God bless you in your remembrances and meet you in your sadness and missing of his input in your life.
thanks for posting this Bob…honoring is a good thing…amazing man he was!
What a legacy of your parents. I just finished “Fighting for Life” by Lila Rose. So she is a heroine like your folks. I can only remember being with him twice but I can still hearhis voice. Again Psalm 116:15
What a wonderful tribute to an amazing father Bob. And you have rescued even more through your calling and life’s work. Thanks for sharing.